So my youngest sister, got into a fight with me yesterday. I told her I don't come over to her abode, because I just don't like her husband, and I don't trust him and I can't just talk to her he has to sit like a gossipy old lady listening, and adding his 2 cents when it it not wanted.Thank god they are moving to Idaho. I just can't stand her anymore, and I don't like her at all. 5 minutes in and she has to start %%$@, it is always all about her, no one else. Then called mom last night and we had some pretty ugly words. I flat out told her she was a bad parent.She tried to turn it around on me, and saying it was my fault, she tried to put limits. But the thing is she never did, she didn't care where I was, what I was doing, etc.I told her that isn't going to work on me anymore. She was the parent, not me.It wasn't right on her part to make me be responsible for my younger sisters all the time, while she went on her merry way with husband 2 and husband 3. Or her drinking and taking copious amounts of Valium while drinking.I told her that was why I made a choice and got pregnant and left home at 16, I couldn't stand being around her any more, because she was and is so much into deny, deny,deny. Nothing is ever her fault, ever, and my youngest sister is the same.She is going to Idaho as well, she said we can go out there and visit her. I told her no. I sure don't want to drive or whatever, 895 miles for a visit and have my sister or her start crap an hour into getting there and I can't just get in my car and go home. The place is only 2500 residents. No thanks.