i know what you mean. I feel that way with work. In my career i prefer structure, rules, legislation, case plans etc. So I am following a particular direction with a client and so everyone is on the same page. If my work was structureless it'd be absolute mayhem. But within that 3D structure there's a realisation that it's all a play anyway. I take on a role and so does the client and their family and they are in my play just like i'm in theirs. And so is the structure. the structure and frameworks and practice frameworks are all dreamstate too (from that state of witnessing it all just happening).

but yeah, the play of guidelines and rules fits for me too