So, we have lived in northern Cal now for almost 4 years and I still don't feel at home or like I belong here. I knew it would take time but this is getting too long. We sometimes take weekend trips towards the more southern end (that was where I was born and raised and that was a LONG time ago!!). Today we went to Morgan Hill for a horse event and it felt like HOME. It was more...... Californiaish. I felt more at ease. There is no way we can move right now. We have a house, 3 horses and pretty much set up for now. What can I do to start feeling like I belong here?? Even my home doesn't feel like home. I constantly feel like I"m a stranger here.